Never turn up at the arranged time for contact - Never bring your child back on time from contact
- Refuse to agree a regular contact regime because you just want contact whenever you want contact
- Give your child a drastic haircut or dye the child’s hair a funny colour without telling them
- Get the child’s ears pierced without their agreement
- Drive the child about in a care without a car seat, tax or insurance
- Feed the child peanuts / milk / chocolate because you refuse to pander to the other parent’s ridiculous ideas about food allergies
- Tell the child about your plans to take them on a foreign holiday before you have cleared it with your ex
- Introduce your child to the fabulously gorgeous, wealthy & famous new girlfriend or boyfriend you met last week
- Buy your child a Barbie doll with complete wardrobe or tickets to see Arsenal at home but never a pair of wellington boots or school uniform
